Youth sports are primarily about the athletes—the children and teenagers who participate in the activities. While adults such as coaches, parents, and organizers play a significant role in facilitating and supporting youth sports, the focus is ultimately on the development, growth, and enjoyment of the young athletes involved.

Youth sports provide a platform for children and teenagers to learn and develop important life skills such as teamwork, discipline, resilience, and sportsmanship. It allows them to improve their physical fitness, build self-confidence, and discover their talents and passions.

Adults, including coaches and parents, have a responsibility to create a positive and supportive environment for the young athletes. They guide and mentor them, teach them the fundamental skills of the sport, and help them navigate the challenges and pressures that come with competition. However, the ultimate aim is to empower the athletes to take ownership of their sporting journey and grow both as individuals and as athletes.

In a healthy youth sports environment, adults focus on fostering the athletes’ personal and athletic development, providing encouragement, and ensuring a safe and inclusive space for all participants. They serve as role models and facilitators, allowing the athletes to explore their potential and enjoy the benefits of participating in sports.

While adults play an important role in youth sports, it is crucial to remember that the focus is on the athletes themselves—their growth, enjoyment, and the valuable life lessons they gain from their involvement in sports.

With youth sports getting more competitive, nothing is wrong with that. However, we think that too much emphasis is placed on winning and not enough on having fun. Adults must understand that the youth and teenagers are not just playing a game. They are developing more than they can imagine- life skills.

But when parents and coaches get too involved and obsessed with attaining victory, the children feel the agony of defeat.

Now that you are an adult, you see things differently.​ Things need to return to the good ole days.

Remember the excitement of playing your first game or match, the thrill of scoring your first score, goal, or touchdown. Remember the feeling of being part of a team and having your teammates and coaches cheer you on? Remember how good you felt when someone from another team praised your efforts? unfortunately, that is what is missing today. In addition, praise, good effort, and congratulations have all resorted to negativity.

By taking the pressure off, and letting your child have fun, they will be more interested and passionate about playing sports and, at the same time, develop athletic excellence. They will also exude positive and good behavior on and off the field, at home, and in school.